Tease and denial is something that seems to work really well for us. T and D, along with keeping Paul in a chastity device is probably the basis of our Femdom dynamic. Because the reality is that we have lives to lead, and not every moment of every day involves a BDSM type interaction between us. We have kids, a business to run, clients to talk to and lives to get on with. But insisting that Paul wears a chastity device and teasing him on a regular basis ensures that the special connection that we have is never far from the surface.
Another nice little under the surface touch is that I make Paul wear women's panties most days. I brought him a pack of three panties from Primark and he does look very cute in them. He was a bit squirmy the first time that I had him put them on and model them for me, but now its quite normal for him and I think he has got used to it.
The chastity device he wears is made from stainless steel and locks behind his balls. I had him buy some special paint and spray it pink. It does look cute.
In the evenings, after the kids have gone to bed we will sit together and watch TV. I will have Paul take off his trousers, pull down his panties and I will lightly play with his cock and balls through his CB, using my nails to stroke the shaft of his cock through the bars of the cage and tickling his balls with my fingernails. Or I may make him remove his CB so I have more access. Once he is all hot and bothered I will make him kneel on the floor, remove my socks and worship my feet. I can feel the passion in his kisses and I love the feeling of his warm breath on my feet. Sometimes while his down there, I will play with myself and have a lovely orgasm. Once I am done, its back in the cage for him and we snuggle on the sofa.
I have noticed that when I deny him orgasms and tease him like this, he seems to ooze devotion to me. I know it sounds funny, but I can virtually smell it coming out of the pores of his skin. There is a mushy-ness about him which I love. Especially as he is not the worlds most mush guy the in daily life.
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