Hello! This is my first post. We are a real life couple, living near London in the UK.
I hope that you enjoy this blog. Its here to talk about our lives and discuss some of the stuff that we can't normally talk about, except with some very close and open minded friends.
We hope that you will drop us a line or leave comments.
I'm Zoe and my husband is Paul. At least, that's our names for the purposes of sharing stuff on this blog!
We have a strong dynamic in our relationship, a power exchange, if you will. some people call it a a Female Led Relationship, I've seen it called Loving Authority, Female Domination, Mistress/slave BDSM or just plain old Femdom.
What ever name you give it is not really the point. The fact of the matter is that we both love it when Paul is my man-slave and I am his demanding Goddess or Mistress.
We have been married for 13 years and the dynamic has been present for all of them. Over the last few years though we have both become more comfortable with our roles.
So how does this manifest itself in our real lives? Well, the reason this blog is called Real life femdom is because that's what we have. Its not dungeons and a strutting thigh booted dominatrix. Its something much more real.
I keep Paul in full time chastity. This means that he wears a locked chastity cage, when ever he is away from me. Its a constant reminder for him and I love holding the key.
Paul does a great deal of housework. We are lucky that we both work from home. Pauls chores are done naked (except for his CB) or in an outfit of my choosing. He scrubs, hoovers, cleans, folds and tidies.
When his chores are done, I have Paul lick my boots or kiss my toes and thank me for assigning him things to do.
I could go on, but hopefully for my first blog post, this should give you an idea.
I shall write some more over the next few weeks. Your repectful feedback is welcome.