Friday, 26 April 2013

Femdom marriage ceremony

We have been married a long time, coming up to 13 years. I would have loved to have had femdom elements in our ceremony. On our wedding night I did give Paul a hard spanking and had him worship my feet as well as my realistic strap on, but I would have loved to have some femdom elements at the ceremony itself. Its something I would love to see.

For instance, how about instead of the bride being "given away" by someone, why not the groom? Wouldn't it be great to have the groom given away by a trusted female friend! And in the vows, I would like to hear the traditional values of "honoring and obeying" uttered by the groom only.

Of course under his special wedding suit he could be wearing all kinds of things, from just a simple chastity device to having full frilly underwear.

And wouldn't it be lovely at the moment where the person conducting the ceremony (obviously this would be a woman!) says that you may now kiss the bride, that the bride lifts up her wedding dress just enough to expose her pretty painted toes, and as a sign of true love, adoration and devotion, the groom kneels down and kisses each lovely toe in turn in front of the whole congregation.

Perhaps we will have to arrange a renewal of vows......


5 comments:

  1. What lovely ideas those are Miss Zoe. I'm sure Paul / Poppy would love them. They made me go a bit goey inside, I'd have loved to be given away by a trusted female friend ( I know just the person). I hope you are able to arrange such a ceremony some time to renew your vows, it sounds a wonderful way you both to enjoy loving dominance.

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  2. When Mistress married me I took a vow to "love, honor, and obey". She then caned me on our wedding night.

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  3. I love this post! Mistress K and I will be married 15 years this coming fall. We made a commitment to renew our vows every 5 years when we got married. We entered our FLM 2 years ago and at my request, Mistress K agreed to make our upcoming vow renewal ceremony a ceremonial acknowledgement of our Femdom lifestyle. We have already interviewed and hired a lovely lady to be our officiant and between now and then, we will be working on the details (the vows, the ceremony, what she will wear, what, if anything will I be wearing, will I be kneeling or standing, that sort of thing) leading up to the big day. I am so looking forward to it. I guess I am feeling what a stereotypical bride-to-be must be feeling like. Weird.

    I fantasize all the time about how we will consummate our vows after they have been exchanged.

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  4. Hello. Did you fist me?

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  5. My wife and I are married for 40+ years and I have been dominated by both her and her best friend who lives with us part time. She has her own room and wardrobe in o ur house. A few years ago we went to Las Vegas for a renewal of vows. It was not difficult to find someone to do a Femdom marriage ceremony.. You can get married in full bondage gear, whip the groom or do whatever you want if you are willing to pay for it. That is a very good option for femdom couples.

    In our case, I was already married to my wife and since there was no marriage license involved, it was basically our show to design. I was made the property of my wife and her friend (my wife's female lover. She is bi). I was wearing my CB6000s and standing in just panties and a bra. We could have gone with just the CB if we wanted. Each got to put a stripe with a can on my butt at the end of the ceremony. To tell the truth, I do not remember much of the details as we are all pretty drunk. They have a BDSM wedding script already so we just modified it for two women and selected the options they offered.

    Afterwards we got into our limo and they took me to a male stripper club and paid for a lap dance for themselves and me. It was embarrassing for me as I have zero bisexual tendencies like my Mistresses do. With their help, I did get hard and cum in my panties. I just closed my eyes and concentrated on what the women were doing to me.

    Afterwards we went back to our suite and they dominated me, teased me and made me watch them have sex for an hour or more until we all fell asleep. Vegas is the place to go for what you are thinking about doing. We spared no expense because we have three incomes but you can do it inexpensively too.

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