Sunday, 5 May 2013

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Yes, these are my feet and yes, this is one of Paul's chastity devices. Sometimes I would have him on the floor, hands handcuffed behind his back and worship my feet while I held his device there. I would think of it and a kind of behavioural conditioning technique. He is a total foot slut and loves worshiping my feet and having the CB there for him while he is engaging in this activity makes a nice link in his mind between the two things.After doing this with him for just a while he will associate chastity, something he generally hates in practice, to foot-worship which is something that he craves.



By the way, please do add me to your blog roll. I like the idea that femdom relationships are becoming more popular and growing in numbers. The more people who add my blog to their roll, the more the word will spread. Your help is essential.

We are considering hiring Goddess Cleo again. We had such an awesome time with her last time that we booked another session with her for November, but I think we will be having a session with her before then.

I have been insisting that Paul wears his chastity cage all day every day after a little break from it recently. It is causing him some difficulty but I absolutely believe and know that it is absolutely essential to keep him wearing it. It helps keeps his behaviour so nice and docile, submissive and obedient. I'm going to have to start making him get used to wearing it through the night too. I will do that gradually, one night at a time.

Our lives are not one long constant fetish session. Having to wear a chastity device though is a nice constant reminder for Paul and I find the idea of having him locked up like this very empowering indeed.

He also gives such lovely long foot massage and worship sessions when he has been locked, teased and denied for a week or so. I can notice the passion and eagerness to please in his demeanor!


My book is coming on nicely, but it is labour intensive. I will keep you up to date on how that is going.

For you men out there, how many of you are in chastity?


18 comments:

  1. Put me in the "locked up" column :)

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  3. I have not yet been put in chastity. Recently however, I have been often required to clean up my post-orgasm mess with my tongue.

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  4. I am currently held accountable through honor system chastity. Works well for us so far as our FLR is still very young. Im sure my goddess Jessica will catch on to the chastity device concept sooner or later. You have been and will continue to be on my blogroll. I enjoy your blog very much. I would ask the same that you add mine. It is very new as our FLR is. It is from my perspective with a combination of real photos and content as well as my thoughts on FLR topics with public non copyrighted photos. By the way, Paul is a very luck man to worship your gorgeous feet, they are perfect. I am also a total foot slut. I think it comes with the territory of being submissive. It was actually the first tendency that I realized who i was. In other words, I had a fetish for the female foot long before I knew I was meant to be led by a female, I just didn't know what it meant at the time. But thanks to years of internet reading of blogs such as or like yours, I discovered who I am, and I'm happier than ever under my wife's control.

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    1. Just added you now, thanks for this...

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  5. I don't do the chastity thing. My wife spanks me, does CBT and takes control during sex as part of our play, but we don't live a "lifestyle". I guess I'm not that much of a submissive. Its been interesting reading your posts, Paul very clearly enjoys what you do to him so more power to you. I think I would get resentful if I was locked up and would probably not wear it in all truth.
    Good luck on your book, I'll be following your progress!

    Dave

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  6. Hi Miss Zoe, I am not yet in full time chastity. Although I think it would be challenging, I'm sure it would be good for our relationship, and am slowly introducing the idea now that I have purchased a device. It ŵould definitely help to keep my attention on Her, rather than the constant temptation to focus on my own pleasure. It does need to be Her choice though I think.

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  7. Thank you for all your comments! I love getting feedback, so many thanks.

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  8. Hi

    I just discovered your blog and will be reading it in the next few days.

    But you can put me in the locked-up ones too, I am kept 24/7 in a chastity device by my lovely wife.

    -Dan

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  9. Hi, I've just found your blog, I see you have already found mine! I will definitely add a link to your blog, in fact I will do a post pointing my readers in your direction.
    Lovely feet by the way.
    ;)

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  10. Me and my partner's are both switches but when we have a role we enforce it for several months at a time. We've been playing with Chastity a lot. I have a CB-6000 and was able to wear it for over a month straight with just being let out for cleaning and edging but if comfort is an issue I suggest looking into Mature Metal. We're currently eyeing getting one ourselves. They are pricey but all the many reviews I've read state they are very comfy and can be kept on indefinitely which is a very hot prospect for us.

    Love the Blog btw!

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  11. I found your blog, thanks to a post made by Robert A. Looking forward to reading some post in the archive and I've added it to my blog list.

    As far as chastity goes, before our PA5K breaking I was in chastity all the time, unless my wife unlocked the device. At the moment I'm "between devices" with the CB6K just not cutting it for long term and us deciding wether we are going to buy another PA5K or getting a custom model made using the PA5K as a design temple. Time will tell.

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  12. Hello Miss Zoe. My name is Robert and a few days ago I discovered your blog. You see I have just started a female led relationship with my girlfriend. We are both very new to this kind of arrangement. I have always desired to submit to a beautiful woman and she has blessed me with the opportunity. I couldn't be any happier. Part of her requests/expectations are that I find material online to send to her so she can get a better understanding of the lifestyle. This is how I found you. I have sent her some of your notes and she has enjoyed several of them very much. I asked her for her permission to follow you and write to you. She has granted me that right. I look forward to more post about you and your very lucky husband. If you have any advice for her please let me know and I will pass on your words. Thank you Miss Zoe for letting us into your world. Hope you have a great day and best of luck with your book!

    Robert

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  13. Dear Miss Zoe,

    I found your blog a few days ago and delved into it with great interest. I have always liked real people into chastity who shared their opinions, experience and feelings upon this "kinky lifestyle". I am (or more exactly was) also into this, at the time when I was lucky enough to have a dominant girlfriend who loved chastity belts at least as much as I did. Or should I say as much as I hated it? :)
    The reason I am writing is that I read you would like to put Paul into his cage on a continuous basis and the drawbacks you faced. Well, from my experience, I can tell you that this is not an thing far from reality. Even more, with a little perseverence from your side, you will easily find out, this is easier than either of you has expected.
    The longest time I have been in the chastity device, apart from its weekly removal for thorough cleaning purposes was about 6 weeks. Believe me, its not so terrible. ctually it is until you find out the way it can work. A lot of people will experience soreness after a few days, but actually it is the nighttime erection that causes a lot of headache. Or should I say testicle-ache? You should start with full day chastity for shorter periods: 2-3 days. The first night is quite bearable. Usually, after 3 days, the nights become a nightmare. It is this point where the male's brain must be "broken in", so that he gets acustomed, there is something on his penis. This will or will not work for the first time. Usually, it doesn't. Keep a few days pause, then start over again. Do not remove the cage at the first time your hubby feels sore. Insist on those 3-4 day of wearing. Similarly to a work-out at the gym, his body will get used to the new conditions and get trained. His brain will cease producing an erection. First the number of erections will decrease (and believe me, there are some during one night), later they will stop involuntarily as soon as his brain senses the cage. Some nights will be easier, some will be harder. If you can go further; increase the time as much as you can. The first 3 to 6 day are critical, everything gets much easier after that. If you manage to breake him in, his nocturnal erections will cease completely. The key is to not give up. Have some breaks if needed, then start over again. You will experience some success after some trials and break him in even before both of you think it's possible. The human body adopts so well to the new conditions.
    Use some ointment in order to prevent soreness. I used baby oil as a lube between the cage and my skin (and not only the cage but also the rings) and covered my private area with a plastic foil as I could not find plastic/rubber undergartment. This helps a lot especially at the beginning. Later, as he gets acustomed, you can reduce the procedure to every other day.
    Cleaning is a little tricky. As I dd not have a key and my girlfriend did not want to corrupt my chastity program and let me out even a second more than necessary, I used 10 ml syringe to squirt diluted liquid soap between my skin and cage, then rub the cage vigurously and finally rinse it with the shower. This helps keep the body hygiene in perfect state but it is necessary to have a thorough cleaning (under strict supervision!) once a week.
    I hope the above lines will help you and your hubby install chastity on a more longer if not a permanent basis.
    Remember that all of the above are from my experience. This can or cannot work for you, but anyhow, it is worth giving it a try.
    If you managed to install him into permanent chastity, you will experience some very interesting things. For example, after one week of continuously wearing his chastity belt, your hubby will be wanting to get spanked. After two weeks, he will crave for that. And not only fot the strap, but also for the strap-on. :)
    Good luck!

    kismazo

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  14. Just a comment about your pic at your Home Page (and on the top above). This is a wonderful pose, a very powerful statement. I can understand why Paul is always wanting to be at your feet.

    tootsie

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  16. Bdsm is very bad because it consist in submiting to the human being That is contrary to the first principle of bellieving in God Allah. The main cause of the prophets was to guide peoples to pray to one single God and worship the one God who created the earth and the skies who created people and gave them graces. Be aware. in some BDSM websites Some womens call them selfs godess that is blasphem. See what happened to Pharaoh when he called him self god that diserved the unger of God and its very blasphemous. those womens are human being they can not do no think they are under the mercy of God they cant change no think. you can stop that change for the better and dont be under no body exept God the single the powerfull. you hve a chancce to repentbefore will be too late if you worship ohter god with god or worship othor think exept god and dont stop it will be torment in hell for rtenity
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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H1qjvyF59c8

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